If I could do all the things…
I would get up early (before anyone else) with a smile on my face, feeling energized.
I would do my morning pages while I sipped warm lemon water and watched the sun rise.
I would do 20 minutes of energizing yoga.
I would meditate for at least 5 minutes.
I would move my bowels.
I would take a nice walk/jog with the baby, cruise the beach and stop for push-ups, squats and planks.
I would have a simple nutritious breakfast that satisfied both of us for hours.
I would drink homemade almond milk in my coffee, which would be simple and delicious to make (or already made).
I would shower and shave my legs.
I would have perfect little bite sized meals for the baby planned and ready to pull out of the fridge for her at every meal.
I would be able to put her down for a great 2-hour nap at exactly the right time every morning.
I would get my to-do list completely done while she was sleeping….
- Wedding decisions/calls
- Household chores – kitchen, laundry, clutter
- Pay the bills/reconcile/budget
- Check/respond to emails
- Make & eat lunch – a protein salad of sorts
I would give our baby 100% undivided attention when she wakes and is ready to play.
I would feed her another nutritious meal of bite sized vegetables and fruit.
We would run errands like doctors visits, grocery stores and play dates.
I would put her down for another 2-hour nap at the perfect time in the afternoon.
I would do "business" stuff during this nap time:
- Monday: Bins Be Clean sales calls
- Tuesday: Rather Be content development
- Wednesday: Bins Be Clean strategy/project management meetings
- Thursday: Rather Be brainstorming/web design
- Friday: Artist Date (personal time)
When the baby wakes up we would giggle, dance, and play in the kitchen while I cook dinner.
I would have a glass of wine or cocktail without feeling bad about it.
Baby would be just getting into her high chair to begin her meal (of perfectly bite sized nutritious food) and dinner would be in the oven/on the stove and ready when daddy comes home.
We would eat dinner while baby is still eating….all as a family.
Dishes would be practically done – just plates in the dishwasher and wipe the baby up.
We would ride our bikes to the beach for sunset or to the park to swing every night.
Bath time would be quick and it would be comfortable to bend over the tub.
Baby would fall asleep as soon as we placed her in her crib.
I would have a cup of tea (or another glass of wine/cocktail) and time to write/cruise social media/chat with a friend or family member/read…decompress.
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We would watch a show (with said tea/wine/cocktail)…decompress.
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We would play a game of cards (with tea/wine/cocktail)….decompress.
I would get to bed by 9 o'clock to fill out my daily energy tracker, draw a tarot card, practice gratitude and stretch.
Occasionally, I would want to snuggle.
I would fall asleep after 3 or 4 deep belly breaths and sleep soundly all night long.
Weekends would involve family outings on the boat, beach or exploring a new area. We would meet friends and enjoy everyone's company. I would be perfectly packed and prepared for anything we might encounter: snacks, swimsuits, towels, dry clothes, diapers, drinks, toys, games, business cards, etc.
If I could do all the things…..